Saturday, August 31, 2019

faction carnival 2019


today was our annual primary school sports carnival. oh my gosh. it has been poooooouring down with rain for the last two days - and every time i got a message from the school message system yesterday i expected it to be the final straw and that the carnival was cancelled, but when i picked the kids up, it was still on and all the parents were left wondering if the staff were sane... joseph's teacher even said (only half joking) that i might want to keep my kids home. we had a good laugh over that.

this morning it still looked terrible, rain was looming and i braced myself as i carefully filled my kids hair with red hairspray... we got out of the car and it poured again, we all had to race to class and i decided to take alex home. but then it stopped and even though it was blowing a gale, there was no more rain. so i found a place to stand with some other cool mums and cheered my kids on in their sprints. 


this amazing little boy who always seems so uninterested in sport stared straight down the line and took off as soon as they sounded the horn and came in third in his race! he was so pleased with himself and rightly so. what a legend!


here he is! little champ


maddie was devastated, in her past two years of carnivals, she has placed each time in the sprint, but this time tried so hard that she overcorrected, stumbled and lost time against the others. she was so upset not placing, but we could see she had really tried. poor love. i know she hated being reminded, but there is always next year!


joseph also cracked me up when he was the only one in his faction that actually ran when it was time to do their flag race. everyone else was casually strolling from bucket to bucket while we all cracked up on the sidelines.


we had a super fun day and when i came back to the oval at the end of the day, presentations were in full swing... 3 of the champions from year two were from madeline's class, as well as the girl who won the sportsmanship award - annnnnnd giles (red) won the carnival!!!!! the kids were well pleased, as were my other mum friends i'd been with all day - as luck may have it, all our kids were in the same faction! wooooooo. go giles go!

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fun fact: our school factions are named after explorers
giles - red
forrest - green
eyre - blue
gibson - yellow

Thursday, August 29, 2019

temple time



i made a promise just a few months after we moved into our new house, that i would make it to the temple once in each calendar month... and i have managed it. so far, so good. i love that i am able to serve and be in the lords house and make time for the temple.

"There exists a righteous unity between the temple and the home. Understanding the eternal nature of the temple will draw you to your family; understanding the eternal nature of the family will draw you to the temple." —Gary E. Stevenson
i know that by making time for the temple, i am being the example that my children need. by seeing their parents attend the temple, they will want to make the gospel of the highest priority in their own lives and to make it a goal to attend themselves one day.
"Prepare now for the temple, the mountain of the Lord. Never allow the goal of the temple to be out of your sight. Walk into His presence in purity and virtue, and receive His blessings—even 'all that he hath.'" —Elaine S. Dalton
make the temple a priority in your own home, for as long as we can see the temple, we will never be lost. ♥

Monday, August 26, 2019

beehive day


we had the most amazing afternoon with our beehives on saturday! i'm the beehive (young women aged 11-13) leader and we decided as a presidency that we would make a special afternoon for them as they often miss out on stake activities that are 14 and up. after thinking about it for a while, i decided to make it something crafty, with food... easy right?


our schedule for the afternoon was:
1pm: welcome and introduction to the afternoon
we made sure the girls all knew each other and then played a game that involved blowing up a balloon then running with it between their knees from one side of the rec hall to the other. if you dropped the balloon you had to start again, if you popped it, you were out. easy, but there was a lotttt of giggles
1:15pm: cooking time. we gathered in the kitchen to make hot chocolate (for later) and chocolate truffles (for the girls to take home). i picked easy things so we could get it done without too much trouble. i gave the girls a bowl each to put their truffles on when they were finished and they took them home in a paper bag at the end of the day.


1:45pm: hairclip making. we made fabric covered hairclips - another simple but fun activity
all you need are scissors, glue, a fabric button kit, a bunch of different fabrics and hair clips. our creative girls loved choosing their fabrics and making them.


2:45pm: johnny lingo movie. i have always been a huge fan of this movie. it speaks of how speaking kindly to others can change their life completely, as sometimes you won't know of your own beauty until someone else can see it. it has such an amazing story and i was so excited to share it with the. bear in mind it is super old, but it's amazing. please go watch it!


i set up one of the rooms to look like a theatre room and served popcorn, which made it that little bit more fun. after the movie i gave each of the girls a card and asked them to write their name on the front and then pass it to their right. each girl wrote something they liked or admired about the girl whose name was on the front. there is nothing better than reading something nice about yourself, so i hope they have the desired effect when they read them later.


3:30pm: nails! one of the girls in our ward is completely nuts about nails, she has glitter, stickers, stamps, transfers, you name it, she can do it. she is amazing!!! so the next hour or so was taken up by all the girls going crazy doing their nails with professional advice.


4:30pm afternoon tea in the courtyard. we are so, so lucky and have the cutest courtyard in the middle of our building. i truly wish people would use it more often as it is the best thing out. i took along all my fancy tea party things and set up afternoon tea for the girls. chair covers, sashes, flowers... even bunting around the tree in the middle! it looked gorgeous and seeing all their faces when they got to sit down was well worth it.


such a perfect end to the afternoon. while we sat together, we talked about what they had liked the most from the day... they all liked different things... but were mostly happy with the food. no surprises there! that's kids for you.


last but not least, we sent the girls home with a bag of goodies... each stamped with their name. 
they contained:
a cool pen
some young womens printouts and a letter each from our presidency


the beehive purpose statement (free printable available here)

(plus their 
chocolate truffles,
haircips and
cards with nice things from earlier)


i have the best time putting this activity together for the girls and loved watching them have a good time. it was worth all the effort and i would highly recommend you do it for your ward!

Saturday, August 24, 2019

smarty pants


so proud of this little girl. i know she works hard at school (and let's be honest, she is super smart which certainly helps) but yesterday she was acknowledged for her efforts with an honour certificate at their school assembly!

madeline is consistently reflecting on her learning. madeline continues to set goals and demonstrates a growth mindset towards all learning tasks. well done superstar!

i am so proud to be her mum and watch her grow and learn. yay maddie!

Wednesday, August 21, 2019

marriage is forever


sometimes we need a little reminder of why we work hard at our marriages... and here is a good one.

 my marriage was, from the very beginning, something that i intended to be a part of for time and all eternity. i told my young womens class once years ago, that an eternal marriage was something i wanted, because when you love someone that much, this life just isn't long enough. for that reason, i intend to keep building... so that when we reach the eternities, i have something huge that we built, together, day by day, that will truly last forever. 

Monday, August 19, 2019

baby alexanders bedroom


i have finally moved all the rubbish (well not rubbish but all the things that have homes that weren't in their homes) out of alexander's room and now it looks like a baby's room! poor child. it wasn't undone, but it wasn't done... but now it is. dad came and worked his magic a couple of weeks ago and put up a picture rail for me to put some of his cute things up on display.


my mother kindly painted me these drawers i found on gumtree whilst pregnant (and by kindly, i mean she rolled her eyes and said jaaaaaade, why did you buy those? they have broken bits and dad is going to complain about having to fix them and do you know what a pain it is to paint things white?) and they look amazing! so happy, she's the best. huge props to dad for doing the fixing too. 


then, whilst opping in northam last month, i found these gorgeous prints which i just knew would be perfect for his room. i am loving his little space. congrats baby alex, you've finally got your own room... almost a year later!

Saturday, August 17, 2019

b-i-n-g-o!


dougs sister is here from the u.s. for a few months and has been spending all her time spoiling my kids rotten, as all good aunties do! we went to k-mart last week chasing a bingo set for them to play and oh my gosh has she got them hooked. they are so into it, ever so carefully checking their numbers and making sure that they haven't missed a thing. it even got worse when she brought prizes to kick the game up a notch... it was all out war. butttt, we are having the time of our lives and i love watching them giggle and play together. bingo is the bomb.

please note, joseph was so excited that he spun the wheel far too fast and flung a pile of the balls off the table, one of them a little too far, resulting in us not being able to play as we didn't know which one it was... luckily it was found the next day. 

bingo is onnnnn at the kendall house.

click here for a list of all the number descriptions for you all to play along at home. believe me, you'll love it! it's a great family game. our set was $9.50 from kmart australia

Wednesday, August 14, 2019

21


my eldest niece is 21 today and it makes me feel so old! i still remember at age 14 going down to perth to meet her when she came home from the hospital, this teeny little thing sleeping away in my arms. we have spent so much time together over the years that followed and i love her madly.

being an aunty has been one of the greatest blessings i have had in this life. happy birthday miss laura. i am so blessed and proud to be your aunty! ♥

Monday, August 12, 2019

10 months old


baby alex continues to grow at an alarming pace... how is he possibly 10 months old already?!

this past month he:
-started clapping his hands
-is constantly moving in time to music
-his new favourite word is jim/dim (differs slightly, doug keeps asking me who jim is hahaha)
-says hiiiiii
-he is fiiiinally waving goodbye to people
-zoomed a car back and forward on the ground
-covers his eyes when people play peekaboo with him
-had another trip to the emergency department, this time for a possible concussion... jeepers! turned out he was okay and just had a vomiting bug. too much!

baby alex you continue to amaze us with everything you do, every single day. you are truly so loved!

Friday, August 9, 2019

another doll


my best friend jen is due to have her baby next month... and she's having a girl. i swore i was never making another one of these dolls ever again (worst pattern ever... i am thinking i'll set fire to it now that this one is done!) unless jen decided to have another baby and that baby was a girl... well... jen is having another baby and that baby is a girl. so supervised by mum, i got to work yet again - and here is the end result! this one is in fun shades of blue and is yet unnamed.

jen, please don't have another girl. i'll kill you... but congratulations, this beautiful doll is coming to live at your house :)

Wednesday, August 7, 2019

jae + jesse


this past saturday i had the amazing opportunity to take some photos for a friend on her wedding day. i was their temple photographer and it was such an honour. they are a beautiful couple and i loved being able to capture the beginning of their "happily ever after"

congratulations jae and jesse! ♥










Sunday, August 4, 2019

christmas at hogwarts: a relief society additional meeting


last night our ward relief society put on yet another awesome activity, this one was harry potter themed and i was in my element! the organisers asked me to be one of the "professors" for the evening and teach the "defence against the dark arts" (how to keep satan out of our hearts and homes) class... so fun! i totally channeled professor trelawney for my costume, even though i am feel aware that dark arts was not her forte. (was anything her forte? haha)


the evenings flyer


little "ron weasley"decked out in his harry potter threads. what a cutie!


my classroom ready to go


diagon alley all set up, the two other classes down the hall were herbology (basic gardening tips to grow helpful herbs) and patronus pet care (how to look after animals in the home) plus a pit stop at the three broomsticks for hot chocolate and cookies.


my little handouts were simple, a quote from harry potter and a candle. "happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.”



keeping this forever hahaha.


as each of the sisters arrived, we were sorted into houses with the sorting hat, so we could go in groups from class to class. we ended in the hall, decked out with amazing decorations and an epic feast.


the girls spent hours and hours making things and setting up the chapel did not leave one thing undone. it was so amazing! they had even made a mini wand for each place seeting, to be taken home and had set up a table with display items from each book and set up a honeydukes lolly store for dessert. what an effort! this was my favourite though, the owl with his cases and broom with hogwarts letters flying all over the place on fishing line.


i was asked to make pumpkin pies as well, one for each house table, which i happily did... i had so many people comment on them and was thrilled! (you can find the recipe here, it seriously is the best, but you need to use canned pumpkin or it just doesn't taste right.)  


my little classroom setup, i was really happy with it!


it was an amazing evening, loved by everyone who attended.

anddddd here's my spiel, enjoy!

Hi everyone, thanks for joining me this evening! I’m going to spend the next 10 or so minutes telling you how you can defend yourSELF against the dark arts… which is keeping the adversary out of our homes and our lives.

Martin Luther King once said: “Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that.”

Our best defence against the dark arts, the way to keep the darkness out of our lives, is to fill them with light. Especially the light of the gospel! We don’t have a great deal of time together this evening, but I would just like to give you a few pointers of how we can do just that!

1.    Read your scriptures, regularly and faithfully. Set aside time to do so and make sure you do it! You wouldn’t forget to brush your teeth and reading your scriptures is as important to our “spiritual hygiene” as brushing your teeth is to your dental hygiene!  Get to know the people and the stories. As you love the scriptures instead of seeing reading them as a chore (which we all have done once or twice in our lives) our understanding of them will increase and we will learn more, daily! If we teach our children to love the scriptures, they will grow up knowing that they are loved by the Lord. As it says in Proverbs 22:6 “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it.”

2.    Pray daily, as often as you need to. When we have a problem, are we as quick to kneel as we are to text? Think about that for a moment! Our father in  heaven has given us the gift of prayer and wants us to tell him everything! Our problems, our fears, our desires and our joys. Pour your heart out and know that he is real, he is there and he is listening to our every word. All we have to do is go to him in prayer.

3.    Make time to attend the temple. Schedule a time to be there and then do not change it. Make it as important as your hair appointment (says me haha!). Heaven is full of the light of the Lord and the temple is the closest we can get to heaven here on earth. In her talk “Keeping Covenants Protects Us, Prepares Us, and Empowers Us,” from the April 2014 General Conference, Sister Rosemary M. Wixom, Primary General President said, “Temple ordinances lead to the greatest blessings available through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. They are those ordinances necessary for our exaltation in the celestial kingdom. As we strive to keep our covenants, our feelings of inadequacy and imperfection begin to fade, while the ordinances and the covenants of the temple come alive. Everyone is welcome to walk that path to eternal life.”

4.    Regularly attend your church meetings. (Including Sunday School people!) Church is not a museum for saints, it is a hospital for sinners. Go to church not for others, but for yourself. It enables us to renew our covenants each week by partaking of the sacrament and allows us to learn more of the gospel and the teachings of the Saviour. If for any reason you cannot attend every week, go as often as you can. If you are away one Sunday, watch a conference talk, listen to one, read the scriptures… do what you can to create the Sabbath where you are. The Lord knows our hearts and understands our circumstances.

5.    Try to keep your family close physically and mentally. There are so many awful things in the world today, beating down our doors and trying to sneak their way in, to destroy our homes and families. To strengthen your family and cultivate peace, remember to have weekly family home evening. Decide that on your chosen night, your family will be together at home for the evening.
Sister Linda S. Reeves boldly declared: “I must testify of the blessings of daily scripture study and prayer and weekly family home evening. These are the very practices that help take away stress, give direction to our lives, and add protection to our homes.” As soon as your children are old enough to understand, give them a responsibility so they realise the importance of family time. Time with family is precious and is never time wasted.

6.   Be mindful of what you do each day. Sometimes we need to look at what we are doing, to prioritize certain thing over others. To focus more on our personal growth, instead of spending time on things that perhaps are not really necessary in the scheme of things. When we put the Lord first, everything else will fall into place.

I do want to finish by saying that just because we do these things it doesn’t mean that our lives will be easy or problem free. Dark days will come. Life was not meant to be easy and we WILL be tested. But we can choose how we react. On the dark days, find a distraction, and most importantly, ask for help. You can pray, write down your feelings, call a friend for support, sing, watch a favourite movie, read a book, get outside and go for a walk, or even keep a gratitude journal. This is an excellent one. It’s hard to see the bad when you are focusing on the good. As Helen Keller said, “keep your face to the sunshine and you cannot see the shadows.” But most importantly, try to lift yourself from that place. Replace the darkness with light and reach for the things that will raise you up. Jeffery R Holland said, “Expecting a trouble-free life because you are a good person is like expecting the bull not to charge you because you are a vegetarian.” By choosing the Lord, we can keep the darkness at bay, but on the days when darkness and doubt come in, we need only remember, that “Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.” A very wise man by the name of Albus Dumbledore said that.