Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Thursday, April 7, 2022

One year later - Oli


I can’t believe it’s been a year since my beautiful mother in law slipped away. 

It’s been 365 days of wishing I could call and hear her voice, 365 days of wanting to tell her funny stories and hear her laugh, 365 days of hearing the kids ask for her, 365 days of watching things change that she’ll never see… 365 days of missing you. You’re forever here in our hearts. 

Until we meet again… 

E fa'avavau Aiga • Families are Forever.


Alex's blessing day. I have never seen her so happy in my life.


Her last birthday we had the chance to celebrate - in hospital.


With the gentlemen who so kindly escorted Stephen to his final resting place.


Having her first hold of baby Alex.


On our wedding day, at the reception. 


Her 60th birthday with her family in Melbourne.


Primary presentation with Maddie, in their matchy outfits. Before she got sick.


Cooking for our family on a Sunday afternoon. 


Making the move to Perth. ❤

Thursday, December 23, 2021

an ornament for willow


i went to drop some christmas goodies at mel's house today...and i felt the urge to make something beautiful for her, a christmas ornament, in memory of their angel baby. 

i bought these clear glass balls some years ago and have put a few things in them for our own christmas tree - (for instance the ball tickets from our first date are in one of them.) but for baby willow, i bought a bag of feathers from spotlight and carefully put some white ones inside. it was simple, but beautiful and mel loved it. i think next christmas i will make two for our tree, in memory of my wonderful in-laws.

 

Saturday, November 20, 2021

50 years of neil and barbara

 


fifty years ago today my parents said i do. 

fifty years!

when my mother was 11, she told her mum she was going to marry neil goodlet. her mother was of course a little disbelieving and gave her the standard "that's nice dear response" but little did she know what was ahead. mum wasn't kidding. 7 years later, they were married at the melville church of jesus christ of latter-day saints - and fifty years later, here we are.

4 children and 12 grandchildren later - a true legacy of love. i have never seen a couple more in love and more devoted to each other. i was so blessed to be born into a home full of love.


as an anniversary gift, i had this painting done for them from @love.staxx on instagram. i have purchased other items from her in the past and her work is beautiful and she is absolutely lovely. i approached her with a black and white picture, as it's a long time joke in our family about the fact that mum and dad's wedding photographer forgot to bring colour film on the day so they actually don't have any colour photos!


until now, when i made this on the "my heritage" website for them during lockdown last year when they made unlimited colourisations to help those at home wanting to keep busy. legends. stacey from love staxx then painted them a colour portrait and mum loved it.

in celebration of their 50 years of marriage, here's a couple of photos of them over the years...


young and in love at dads 16th birthday party in the backyard at my grandparents elvira street home (which my parents still own coincidentally)


posing at the wishing well in kings park, young and freshly enagaged after attending a friends wedding (who absolutely did not make it to the 50 year mark!)


another one at kings park when we had family photos back when emma kate was a baby. i actually snapped this shot on my phone between the photographers efforts and i love it so much, even all these years later. i love how in love they are, it shows so much. dad is always telling us what a babe she is and it's adorable.


this snap is at my best friend jennifers wedding 2010, i am pretty sure it's the first time that they worked out how to take a selfie by the looks of it.


i just love how much they love each other. it's the greatest thing in my life. i looove to tell people how long they have been together. it's truly the most wonderful love story.

***

as a gift for them, my brothers and i paid for them to visit rottnest together today. the last time they went was newly married, while mum was pregnant with my oldest brother. they (mum especially!) were so stoked, and as soon as dad found out it included multiple tours (including the rottnest train run, and the guns/ war memorial/ tunnels tour) he was keen as beans. they said it was the best day and we are so happy that they loved it. we are so so lucky to have them as our parents. they are simply the best.

Wednesday, August 18, 2021

an unexpected flower delivery


doug's sisters best friend had her 30th birthday yesterday and being the good prompter that i am, i messaged her to remind her and suggested she send her a bunch of flowers using a local posy delivery service. which she did (you're welcome niques haha)


so imagine my absolute delight when she sent me some the very next day, the exact ones i had been eyeing off on the website when i made a suggestion for her friend! along with the funniest card, in true niques style.

"jade. let it be known once and floral, hands down greatest quote from back to the fuschia 2... doc says to marty... "it's orchids, marty! something gotta be done about orchids!" haha just pollen your leg! hope your daisy gets better and love you a bunch! -ok bloomer."


oh my goodness. i love them - and her, so much. i seriously scored in the sister in law department. what a lovely thing to do. ❤

Saturday, June 5, 2021

busselton jetty


i haven't actually been to busselton since i was in high school. when i was in year 9 or 10 and staying with my cousins in bunbury in the summer, they had a bus service, called the runaway bus that went to busselton and back for the day, twice a week. i went with my cousin and her friends and had the best time wandering around, looking at the shops and just hanging out. that was actually the last time i was here!


but being here with the kids was so much fun! we booked tickets on the jetty train and to the underwater observation centre at the end. because it's really interesting, here's some information about the jetty from busseltonjetty.com.au

"Just two and a half hours drive south of Perth, the Busselton Jetty is situated at the northern gateway to the Margaret River Wine Region, in the seaside resort town of Busselton.

Extending 1.8 kilometres over the protected waters of Geographe Bay, the heritage listed Busselton Jetty is the longest timber-piled jetty in the Southern Hemisphere.  As one of the most popular tourist attractions in Western Australia, it is a must see for any visitor to the Capes Region.

Construction of the Busselton Jetty began in 1865. Beginning as a mere 161 metres, sand drift resulted in an additional 131 metres being added in 1875.  Further extensions were made throughout the following 90 years creating the remarkable 1.8 kilometre length.

After more than a century of use and servicing over 5000 vessels, the Busselton Jetty officially closed as a Port in 1973. Once closed to shipping, government maintenance ceased.

Following the decline of government funding and the crippling effects of Cyclone Alby in 1978, a community group was formed to raise funds for much needed restoration and maintenance. Between 1987 and 2003, the community organisation now known as the Busselton Jetty Environment and Conservation Association (BJECA) raised sufficient funds to replace 50% of the Jetty structure, establish the train service and construct the iconic Underwater Observatory and Interpretive Centre.

In 2011 a $27 million refurbishment of the jetty structure was completed. $24 million was contributed by the Western Australian State Government with the balance contributed by the Shire of Busselton and BJECA.

The Busselton Jetty stands as a monument to the spirit and dedication of the Busselton community."



joseph and grandad getting ready for our train ride.


it actually takes a long time to get out to the observatory but the ride is so nice, with the ocean air and a speaker in the carriage telling us information about the jetty and its history. we just sat back and enjoyed the ride.


alex especially. although he has more energy that 14 people combined, he loved sitting with us as we cruised along in the train. his little face all lit up.


i mean seriously. how amazing is that view!


as you can see from the photos, alex climbed from person to person as we went along haha.


the underwater observatory was incredible.


built at the end of the jetty, it is a cylinder built into the ocean, then emptied out, to allow public access and education - providing an incredible 360 degree view of the ocean life there.

"Explore one of only six underwater observatories in the world at the Busselton Jetty.

Your Underwater Observatory tour starts with a relaxing train ride on the Stocker Preston Express along the length of the Jetty with 360-degree views across Geographe Bay. One of our friendly tour guides will greet you at the end of the Jetty to guide you through the Underwater Observatory. As you descend 8 metres below the oceans surface you will be lead through the natural wonders that lie beneath the Jetty where it’s piles create Australia’s greatest artificial reef host to an inspiring forest of vividly-coloured tropical and sub-tropical corals, sponges, fish and invertebrates. 

Discover more than 300 individual marine species in their natural habitat through eleven viewing windows at various levels within the 9.5 metres diameter observation chamber.

Each year during autumn and winter, the Leeuwin Current brings a narrow band of warm water down the Western Australian coastline. This warm southerly current is responsible for introducing an incredibly diverse array of tropical and sub-tropical species into Geographe Bay, resulting in coral growth at a latitude of 33 degrees south. This is a remarkable phenomenon when compared to the western coastlines of other southern hemisphere continents such as Africa and South America which have no coral growth below 5 degrees south."



look at the incredible views from the windows at the lowest level. the ocean floor is brimming with life and is incredible to watch.


this kid was obsessed. he stood at the huge windows just watching as the time went buy, loving on all the ocean life.


and even letting his little brother look on too


i love this pic. it's honestly like something from a painting or a movie still, just so calm and beautiful.


maddie loves anything to do with the water. she was in heaven and loved every second of this part of our day. i feel certain she would have stayed until close if we could have.


as the sun began to set, we made our way back. what a view. not a day goes by that i don't feel so blessed to live in western australia. we have so many beautiful places here to explore.


oceans, beaches, caves, coast, gorges. our state truly has it all. what a blessing to it is to be here. we could spend our whole lives exploring and i am certain we would still never see it all.


little mate watching the ocean as we made our way back


and a photo with my love. i hope this weekend away is doing him some good.


the kids had a little play on the shipwreck playground (so cool! i love the way it's even lying on it's side!)


while i walked a little way along and took some snaps of the jetty buildings. the sunsets here are just stunning. it's all so beautiful - i never want to leave. ❤

cape naturaliste lighthouse


now that the estate is finally sorted and we can breathe a sigh of relief and relax for a bit, we ran away for the long weekend to busselton. it's been two and a half years since we've been able to actually get away, as we haven't felt safe going anywhere further than an hour or so away while doug's parents were so unwell. doug and i booked to take the kids with us, but booked a house big enough to bring my parents along - which they happily did. it was sooooo nice to finally have some time to ourselves - away from the norm and not have to worry about a thing. 


we drove down yesterday and took our sweet time doing so, arriving late in the afternoon, but with enough time to duck into the local opshop and get some bargains. it is freezing and threatening to rain down here, so they had all their summer clothes for 50c. you bet your ass i got an amazing dress (or 3... haha) to take home.


we started today with a tour of the cape naturaliste lighthouse, which was incredible. 


i am so glad we booked the tour and didn't just wander around as we got to learn all about the history of the place, the families who lived here, more about lighthouses andddd


even climb the up the narrow old staircase and go out on the lighthouse platform for a better look. worth every cent i'd say! we had the most lovely guide, called lisa who knew the answers to all our questions and was wonderful with the kids. she was just delightful.


fun fact. the lighthouse lamp turns all day even when it isn't lit, to ensure that the sun cannot start a fire through the glass if it's constantly in one point. 


the view from up top was amazing, you could see forever - and this was my favourite bit of the view, these three gorgeous human, my lovely parents, looking after our toddler so that we didn't have to worry about him falling on the stairs or taking a dive off the top. yikes.


oh hey. just me on the top of a lighthouse. no big deal. haha.


i love seeing joseph with a smile on his face. although he wouldn't say so, i know his grandparents dying has affected him so much. he was so sullen and hard to reach after stephen died and i dread it happening again. i feel like this breath of fresh air has been so good for him.


the kids are loving everything and are having the best time. i am so glad we took some time out and came down.


these two were living their best lives out on the lighthouse balcony


and little alex found himself an alcove to chill in while he waited for us to come back down.


so happy to be here with the ones i love! ❤