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Monday, July 2, 2018

let us oft speak kind words: a relief society first sunday council



LET US OFT SPEAK KIND WORDS

The adult human body is 60% water, the brain is 73% water. So keep that in mind while you watch this video... (what is rice cooked in? water!) harsh or kind words will have an effect on our bodies over time!

Have we thought of the effects our words have on others? 


Words have been found to affect water crystals. Japanese researcher and healer, Dr. Masaru Emoto, conducted experiments on water molecules. These experiments showed human thoughts and intentions can physically alter the molecular structure of water. Specifically, the water crystals were altered simply through conscious intention.
Water from bottles labeled with positive messages had intricate structures and diamond-like reflectiveness when frozen and magnified. Water labeled with negative words had collapsed structures with yellow edges when frozen.
Dr. Emoto demonstrated that words have a vibration and will actually alter the structure of water crystals. He found that uplifting, positive, and encouraging words created beautiful, balanced and symmetric crystals. Destructive, hateful and evil words had the opposite affect on the water crystals. The visual evidence is breathtaking.
We use the transformational power of words every day. You control this incredible force because your thoughts become your words. You are the master of your ship, guiding it to safe lands of prosperity, abundance, happiness, and freedom. Choose your words wisely and be the agent of positive change in a world that desperately needs you.
Using words is a major key to the effect we have on others. It is implemented into everything, boldly and subtly, in our daily lives. We must believe in the power of words. As we consistently hear hopeful and uplifting words, their influence brings hope and joy to our thoughts. By changing the words we think, speak, act, write, listen, read, and wear, we can improve ourselves and others. (Source: https://www.samson.life/blog/effect-words-water)

How do you feel when someone is unkind to you?
How does it feel to be constantly belittled by someone over a long period of time?

How do you feel when you’ve been unkind to someone?

Johnny Lingo - Mahana became a beauty when she was told she was beautiful. For those who aren't familiar with the story, you can watch it here.



mahana whilst she believed she was ugly and useless 

Our words and actions must uplift – not tear down
One thing we often tend to overlook is the power in our words and and actions and how they might affect the people around us or even our feelings about ourselves. Mahana’s Father conveys this powerfully as he speaks about her in preparation for the negotiations. He says: “She’s as foolish as she is ugly… I’m ready to give him a cow just to have him take her off my hands”

Imagine being the butt of all the jokes as everyone gathers to witness the negotiations regarding your worth. Your already tender feelings are only exacerbated as you overhear the villagers make fun of you and the impending proposal. Your father thinks you are foolish and ugly and even goes too far so as to say that you have no worth. You would need to be sold – or so he thinks, for you to be married. The travesty in this is not that everyone else thinks this of you, including your own father – but that you are probably starting to think that about yourself too!

This is heartbreaking – especially when it comes from the people who you love the most. It makes sense that we let their words have so much power over us. They are people that we love and the ones we assume love us too, so what they think and say and feel about us matters!
Be careful with your words and especially with your actions. Be one who builds up and uplifts. Use your words to help make someone feel good about themselves. Be generous with your compliments and sparing with your criticisms. And remember – Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth!

Many things can happen to make a woman beautiful. The thing that matters most is what she thinks of herself. 


mahana once she believed she was beautiful and loved ♥

moral of the story: let us oft speak kind words to each other!

Monday, April 9, 2018

easter eggs: an easter lesson


as part of our new sunday meetings in relief society, we hold a council meeting on the first sunday of the month. but because easter fell on the first sunday of the month this year, i made an executive decision and decided we were having an easter lesson instead... which seemed to make the sisters in our ward pretty happy, especially when i busted out a huge box of easter eggs to pass around after the lesson. 

you may recall these eggs from last easters fhe with the kids, but i totally used them again (and mums lovely friend has even now made me my own set which i am thrilled about!) and they were just as good with adults as they were with kids, especially seeing as half way through the lesson, the sisters started to participate and make comments! yay!

here are the scriptures and contents for you if you want to make your own set:

1. matthew 26:15 30 silver pieces
2. 3 nephi 11:11-12 & matthew 26:39 sacrament cup
3. matthew 27:24 small chunk of soap
4. mark 14:29-31, 53, 66-72 mini chicken
5. matthew 27:28-29 red fabric
6. alma 11:42 piece of rope
7. john 19:24 dice
8. matthew 27:51-54 rocks
9. john: 19:39 rosemary stem
10. luke 24:1-10 round white pebble
11. john 20:25-26 nails
12. matthew 27:59 & matthew 28:6 white fabric

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i also wanted to share something i read online last week (which i have seen numerous times before, but this seems an awesome place to post it...) about the burial cloth in the tomb. It's a lovely read.

Why did Jesus fold the linen burial cloth after His resurrection?

The Gospel of John (20:7) tells us that the napkin, which was placed over the face of Jesus, was not just thrown aside like the grave clothes. The Bible takes an entire verse to tell us that the napkin was neatly folded, and was placed separate from the grave clothes.

Early Sunday morning, while it was still dark, Mary Magdalene came to the tomb and found that the stone had been rolled away from the entrance. She ran and found Simon Peter and the other disciple, the one whom Jesus loved. She said, 'They have taken the Lord's body out of the tomb, and I don't know where they have put him!' Peter and the other disciple ran to the tomb to see. The other disciple outran Peter and got there first. He stooped and looked in and saw the linen cloth lying there, but he didn't go in.

Then Simon Peter arrived and went inside. He also noticed the linen wrappings lying there, while the cloth that had covered Jesus' head was folded up and lying to the side. Was that important? Absolutely! Is it really significant? Yes!

In order to understand the significance of the folded napkin, you have to understand a little bit about Hebrew tradition of that day. The folded napkin had to do with the Master and Servant, and every Jewish boy knew this tradition. When the servant set the dinner table for the master, he made sure that it was exactly the way the master wanted it. The table was furnished perfectly, and then the servant would wait, just out of sight, until the master had finished eating, and the servant would not dare touch that table, until the master was finished. Now, if the master were done eating, he would rise from the table, wipe his fingers, his mouth, and clean his beard, and would wad up that napkin and toss it onto the table.
The servant would then know to clear the table. For in those days, the wadded napkin meant, 'I'm done.' But if the master got up from the table, and folded his napkin, and laid it beside his plate, the servant would not dare touch the table, because...The folded napkin meant, 'I'm coming back!'

He is coming back! ♥

Monday, December 11, 2017

the power of the atonement


we had a lesson about the atonement in relief society today... and it made me think about this amazing quote from chieko n. okazaki:

"We know that Jesus experienced the totality of mortal existence in Gethsemane. It's our faith that he experienced everything- absolutely everything. Sometimes we don't think through the implications of that belief. We talk in great generalities about the sins of all humankind, about the suffering of the entire human family. But we don't experience pain in generalities. We experience it individually. That means he knows what it felt like when your mother died of cancer- how it was for your mother, how it still is for you. He knows what it felt like to lose the student body election. He knows that moment when the brakes locked and the car started to skid. He experienced the slave ship sailing from Ghana toward Virginia. He experienced the gas chambers at Dachau. He experienced Napalm in Vietnam. He knows about drug addiction and alcoholism.

Let me go further. There is nothing you have experienced as a woman that he does not also know and recognize. On a profound level, he understands the hunger to hold your baby that sustains you through pregnancy. He understands both the physical pain of giving birth and the immense joy. He knows about PMS and cramps and menopause. He understands about rape and infertility and abortion. His last recorded words to his disciples were, "And, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world." (Matthew 28:20) He understands your mother-pain when your five-year-old leaves for kindergarten, when a bully picks on your fifth-grader, when your daughter calls to say that the new baby has Down syndrome. He knows your mother-rage when a trusted babysitter sexually abuses your two-year-old, when someone gives your thirteen-year-old drugs, when someone seduces your seventeen-year-old. He knows the pain you live with when you come home to a quiet apartment where the only children are visitors, when you hear that your former husband and his new wife were sealed in the temple last week, when your fiftieth wedding anniversary rolls around and your husband has been dead for two years. He knows all that. He's been there. He's been lower than all that. He's not waiting for us to be perfect. Perfect people don't need a Savior. He came to save his people in their imperfections. He is the Lord of the living, and the living make mistakes. He's not embarrassed by us, angry at us, or shocked. He wants us in our brokenness, in our unhappiness, in our guilt and our grief. 

You know that people who live above a certain latitude and experience very long winter nights can become depressed and even suicidal, because something in our bodies requires whole spectrum light for a certain number of hours a day. Our spiritual requirement for light is just as desperate and as deep as our physical need for light. Jesus is the light of the world. We know that this world is a dark place sometimes, but we need not walk in darkness. The people who sit in darkness have seen a great light, and the people who walk in darkness can have a bright companion. We need him, and He is ready to come to us, if we'll open the door and let him."
(Chieko N. Okazaki, Lighten Up, Preface, p. 174)


when i was in a ysa ward back in 2003, one of our relief society teachers read this to our class. i remember feeling such an overwhelming feeling of love, and knowing how much i am loved. it's the greatest explanation of the atonement i have ever come across and i hope you love it too ♥


Sunday, December 3, 2017

miracles: a christmas relief society lesson

(nativity available from deseretbook.com)

a big thank you to mormonwoman.org for the wonderful lesson idea, found here

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My lesson today is about miracles, Christmas and otherwise, but with a focus on Christmas to begin with.

There is so much for us to receive from God in the message of the Christmas story, so much truth about His love and reality and plan for us. There are just so many miracles to reflect on. We spend time giving gifts to each other during this season, but there is so much that our Heavenly Father and Savior have given us.

The Christmas story is a testimony that we worship a God of miracles and I’d love to begin by watching the nativity video so we can watch a few of them take place.


In the gospel sense, miracles can be defined as “those occurrences wrought by the power of God which are wholly beyond the power of man to perform.”
The Christmas story itself it comprised of one miracle after another. Let’s discuss a few of them!

1.       It is a miracle that Mary’s cousin, Elisabeth, became pregnant in her old age, after being barren all her life. The angel Gabriel appeared to her husband, Zacharius, and told him his wife would bare a son whom they should name John, and that he would prepare the way for Jesus Christ. Because Zacharius could not believe they would have a child in their old age, he was told he would be unable to speak until his baby was born. Later, when the baby was delivered, relatives questioned him what the child’s name would be. He wrote on a tablet, “His name is John,” and at this point, his tongue was loosed, and he spoke, praising God. All a coincidence? No.

2.        It’s a miracle that Mary was also visited by the angel Gabriel and told that she would conceive a Son, who should be named Jesus, and would be the Son of God. It’s a miracle that Joseph, the man to whom she was espoused, married her, since in Jewish culture at this time, an unmarried woman found to be expecting a child was subject to being stoned to death. When Joseph found out Mary was expecting a child, he chose to be merciful to her and “put her away privily.” It was after he made the decision to be merciful that he was visited in a dream by an angel and told not to be afraid to marry her- that the child she was carrying was conceived of the Holy Ghost, and was the promised Messiah.

I can imagine Mary would have been so frightened at this time. She had gracefully accepted the holy task given her by the Lord, but she was young, unmarried and probably had no idea what would happen to her. Still she trusted in the miracle she was to carry and knew the Lord would provide

3.       It’s a miracle that the sign which Samuel the Lamanite had prophesied (that of a day and a night and a day with no darkness), came to pass when it did. Wicked unbelievers had created a deadline of when the sign had to occur, or they would put to death all the believers of Samuel’s prophesy. The sign occurred the very night before the deadline. Just a coincidence? No.

How much faith did these people have? How frightening this must have been for them, regardless of their faith that these things would come to pass as they had been promised

4.       It was a miracle that humble shepherds were notified of the Savior’s birth in such an amazing way- by an angel of the Lord, announcing that Jesus had been born in Bethlehem, followed by a heavenly host singing praises.

I have always loved watching the shepherds in our church’s version of the nativity video… the fear on their faces as the angel walked towards them, backing away, towards their sheep, wanting to protect them. It’s a beautiful thing. Yet another reminder of Christ “the good shepherd”, who gave everything he had to protect us, even his own life. Their faces change to awe and belief as they approach the manger to worship the Christ child.

5.       It’s a miracle that a very faithful man named Simeon had it revealed to him through the Holy Ghost that he would not die before he had seen the Christ. Simeon was led by the Spirit to the temple, where Mary and Joseph had brought their baby, Jesus, to present and dedicate him to the Lord. Mary and Joseph made no announcement that their child was the Christ; Simeon knew who He was when he saw him. He picked up the child in his arms and praised God saying “Lord, now lettest thou thy servant depart in peace…For mine eyes have seen thy salvation; A light to lighten the Gentiles, and the glory of thy people Israel.” A mini-miracle granted to Simeon for his faithfulness.

6.       It was a miracle that Wise Men followed a star in the east “to come and worship the King of the Jews.” No doubt, these were probably inspired men of God; perhaps prophets. It was a miracle that after they found & worshiped Jesus, they were warned of God in a dream that they should not return to Herod (Herod had requested they bring him word of where the child was so he could destroy him). An angel of the Lord also appeared to Joseph in a dream telling him to flee with his family into Egypt in order to protect Jesus from Herod. All of these happenings were truly miraculous.

The wise men amaze me. They knew from watching the heavens that the Christ Child had been born, they journeyed a considerable distance to find him, knowing that he was someone worthy of their time, bringing along gifts fit for a king.

We often see miracles in our own lives and I have asked two dear friends of mine to share miracles that they have had. Small and simple or life changing, we all have miracles in our lives.

(A Christmas miracle) & (An story of adoption)

I have one last miracle that I’d like to share. One of my own. I learned that my Heavenly Father knew me personally when I was seventeen years old. I always knew I had a father in heaven who loved me and never doubted the truth of the gospel, but it was this day that I truly knew that he cared for me and would help me if I would only ask.

A few weeks after my seventeenth birthday, I left for a year overseas in Brazil on student exchange. I struggled. I was homesick, I was angry, I was confused and I was hurting badly. My first few weeks were spent crying often, wishing for home and trying hard to accept that I needed to move ahead with my life.

Then school in a foreign country began. I spoke barely 10 words of Portuguese, understood nothing and needed to somehow make it from my home to the school on a bus. I had been instructed which buses passed the school and how to ask if i was concerned that I would take the wrong one. so whilst waited at the bus stop I carefully asked the driver, "passa cefet?" to which he nodded, so I got on the bus. 

It turned out the bus did not "passa cefet" and as the minutes passed and we hadn't passed the school, I became worried and began to panic. I couldn't ask anyone for help, I had no idea where I was... and no way to get back home. I didn't even know my host family's address or phone number by heart yet. 

So I prayed. I sat on that hot bus surrounded by people I did not know and begged my Heavenly Father to help me find my way. To somehow send someone that could help me. And he did. No sooner had I ended my prayer, tears pouring down my face, a gentleman on the bus, a member of the military police who I had not seen board, touched my arm and asked me a question, which of course I could not understand. I kept repeating the name of my school to which he nodded, clearly understanding where I needed to go. 

This wonderful man tapped the driver on the shoulder, had him stop the bus and motioned for me to follow him. We walked half a dozen blocks in the opposite direction, where he flagged down another bus and spoke quickly to the driver, gesturing at me and then pointed to the seat directly behind the driver. I pulled out my purse which was waved away. I boarded the bus and ten or so minutes later, the driver opened the doors, turned to me and pointed at my school.

Ii knew that day the power of a sincere prayer. I knew that my Heavenly Father had heard me and sent help, sent me someone that could guide me safely to my destination. To this day I have never forgotten that man. To him this may have been just another day, but to me it meant everything. 

The amazing thing here is the fact that the military police are not known for honesty. They are known for being dodgy. For not doing the right thing, accepting bribes, being corrupt. But the right man was there that day for me. My own miracle.

I would like to play another video. It’s a beautiful song often shared at Easter, but I think it’s also a wonderful Christmas song. I pray during this holiday time that we can ponder how God is working in our lives, even through hard times we might be experiencing or that we are seeing others experience. Heavenly Father is there. His miracles are real. The greatest miracle of all is that through His Son, Jesus Christ, we can find peace in this life and know that eternal blessings also await us.


I know we can see miracles in our own lives. I bear testimony of this. As President Monson has often said, there are no coincidences. God sends us hope through people, those extra dollars, miracles large and small, because he loves us. I know that as we light the world this Christmas and “light OUR world” this coming year, we will blessed to see miracles all around us. Of this I am certain. 

Tuesday, November 28, 2017

2018: a year to shine


i have spent the last few weeks putting together these journals to be handed out at our relief society christmas party this thursday... i am a member of a facebook group called "lds relief society presidencies" and about a month ago, one of the members shared these amazing printables that they had used this year, to continue the "light the world" program all year long. she had posted them with the hopes that they would benefit other ward relief societies around the world... and they are certainly going to do just that for us! we took the printables and went one step further to create something awesome!

i started with these journals from kmart australia (just $2 each!) then printed all 13 of her printables (one for each month, plus a year at a glance page) and put them staggered along the edge into the pages to be used throughout the year.


here's a little bit of my spiel that i'll be delivering along with the journals:

"We have made the coming year as easy as possible for you sisters by making these diaries for your use throughout 2018. The light the world program was designed to allow us to become closer to Christ and we as a presidency felt it important to continue the “light the world” program throughout the year. Here you will find ways to light OUR world. There are topics (eg: September is: Jesus honoured his parents and so can you) to be focused on each month. There is a brief description of each, followed by ways that you can participate. These are easy things, things that you can incorporate into your days without too much trouble. Please take the time to become familiar with them, read the topics, think about what they meant to you… because we will refer to them often throughout the year.

With the curriculum changes happening as of January 2018, the first Sunday will now consist of a discussion, lead by a member of the presidency. When there is not a local or national need for something else to be discussed, this topic will be the one mentioned in your diaries. If you are familiar with it beforehand, you will find it much easier to participate.


Please use your diaries, they have been made with love for you all and hope you will use them, reading each months topic often. There is also an additional 9 blank pages in the back for you record your experiences throughout the year, as you participate in the “light our world” program. 


As Visiting Teaching has also changed, there will no longer be a prepared message from the ensign for you to use each month when visiting. The new idea is to simply “do what she needs.”

Sister Bingham, Relief Society General President told the Church News, “We want to help sisters understand how to really care for and strengthen each sister.” “The Church handbook doesn’t talk about our responsibilities to teach a lesson. It talks about how ‘visiting teachers sincerely come to know and love each sister, help her strengthen her faith and give service. Visiting teachers seek personal inspiration to know how to respond to the spiritual and temporal needs of each sister they are assigned to visit.” The changes are meant to help visiting teachers look beyond a universal prepared message and figure out what the sister they visit personally needs. “What are we supposed to do?” asked Sister Sharon Eubank, First Counselor in the Relief Society General Presidency. 
“Do what she needs.”

For those of you who enjoy leaving a spiritual thought, you may also use the monthly “light our world” thoughts. Encourage the sisters you visit to become familiar with their journal, to participate along with us and to be an active participant of our ward relief society.


Remember as it says on the cover, 2018 is a year to shine. Shine with the light of the gospel and make it the best year yet."


thank you thank you thank you to the amazing heather taylor, who shared her idea and printables with the rs presidencies page. we are super grateful and absolutely love them, as we are sure the sisters in our ward will too! printables are available here. i am so grateful for the church and the sisters who share their ideas to help others!

Sunday, October 1, 2017

sustaining our leaders: a relief society lesson


the first sunday of each month brings a lesson taught by a member of the ward relief society presidency. we choose the topic ourselves, trying to think of a subject relative to the sisters in our ward, something we hope they may personally benefit from. i felt inspired during our most recent stake conference to speak about sustaining our leaders (might have been somewhat brought on seeing as a new stake presidency was announced) so here we are. here's the lesson i gave today... i hope it may be beneficial to someone reading ♥

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I felt particularly inspired during the final talk of stake conference to focus my lesson today on sustaining our church leaders.

Let’s begin today by making a list of words that mean the same thing as sustain:
(These were all written on the whiteboard, examples included: 
uphold, comforthelpassistencouragesuccoursupport, give strength to, be a source of strength to, be a tower of strength to, buoy up, carry, cheer up, hearten, see someone through, undergo, suffer, bear, support, stand, keep up, prop up, shore up, bolsterunderpin…)

Pretty much every Sunday a member of the bishopric reads out callings and releasings at the beginning of our sacrament meeting. We raise our hands to sustain someone who has just received a new calling. Most of the time it’s an automatic reaction. Some Sundays we may not even really listen to the names of the people we are sustaining. It’s simply part of our Sacrament Meeting routine. Despite this failing on our part, it is actually a very sacred action and one we need to do with a thoughtful and prayerful heart. It is a critical motion with eternal consequences and it comes with responsibilities.

READING 1: “It is a serious wrong in the presence of the Almighty for one to vote to sustain the authorities of the Church and then to go away and oppose them and trample under foot the counsels that they give; and we will be judged of the Lord for it (President Joseph F. Smith, Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith, 1998, 218–19).

So when we raise our hand to sustain someone, whether it is the nursery leader or the prophet, what are we really doing? We are not voting. We don’t get to choose who will serve in the calling. That was already prayerfully taken to the Lord by the person who had the authority to do so. We are, instead, agreeing to accept callings or assignments from them if they are in a position to offer them, to help them in any way we can. Our sustaining is a vote of confidence in the person. We are promising to support them in their work and (something I think we should all remember) to speak well of them. We are committing ourselves to accepting that their call came from God.

READING 2: Sister Terrie Bittner, author of “What Does It Mean to Sustain our Leaders” on the website Mormon Women Stand, said that this truth was brought home for her, one day when she called and asked someone to substitute for her in Primary. This sister admitted that teaching Primary was not her favourite thing, but that she had raised her hand to sustain her when she was called, and so, accepting my request for help was part of the promise she had made to God that day. She substituted and worked hard to give the class a wonderful experience. She then went on to say, “ I wondered then if I had ever worked so hard to carry out my covenant to sustain someone in a calling. I believe that is what sustaining someone is—a covenant with God.”

That is something we would all do well to remember when we are extended an assignment or asked to assist with a lesson, an activity or simply just to attend those lessons or activities that people have put so much effort into.

READING 3: “It is an important duty resting upon the Saints who … sustain the authorities of the Church, to do so not only by the lifting of the hand, the mere form, but in deed and in truth.” This statement was made in 1898, when President Smith was Second Counsellor in the First Presidency. (Teachings of Presidents of the Church: Joseph F. Smith (1998), 211.)

READING 4: "No person is to be ordained to any office in this church, where there is a regularly organized branch of the same, without the vote of that church." (Doctrine & Covenants 20:65)

We have an opportunity to sustain—support, help, pray for—each of these people in their callings. We indicate our willingness to do so by raising our right hands when their names are read to us in general conference, stake conference, ward or branch conference, or sacrament meeting. Raising our hands is a sign to us, to them, and to the Lord that we will sustain them.

Do any of you recall watching General Conference in April 2015, when during the Saturday Afternoon Session of Conference during the sustaining of the church officers, several members stood and loudly opposed our first presidency? How did it make you feel? I DO remember it well and I felt sick to my stomach. I remember saying angrily to my husband, how could someone do that? How dare they? Why bother going to conference if you don’t agree with them? That’s the whole POINT of going to conference, to listen to them!

Mormons, like everyone else, are opinionated people. We will often have more experience than the person called to lead. We sometimes have personal beliefs that cause us to want things to be done differently than they are. However, once God has approved a calling, we are expected to become humble followers of this person. While this may seem hard or short-sighted, we will someday be the one who is sustained into a calling we are less qualified for. Then we will hope others will be patient and supportive during our time.

Jesus taught us to treat others the way we ourselves want to be treated. The Church is not like the world. We don’t always fill our positions with the most qualified person. (Although with modern politics you have to wonder!) Often the person in the calling is there because there is something he can learn from it. Other times he is there because there is a specific situation or person he can best help, even if he’s less qualified for other parts of the work.

God moves us around to various callings in order to help us grow. We are called to sustain them, whether or not we think they are qualified. God calls; God qualifies. Sustaining people is a covenant we make at the local level. It is also a covenant when we sustain the prophet and the apostles. We covenanted in the waters of baptism and in the temple to follow Jesus Christ and God, and we covenanted to follow the prophet as the Lord’s mouthpiece in our time. To do anything less is to violate our sacred covenants. To do anything less is to decide God made a mistake—and God never makes mistakes.

READING 5: “When we sustain the President of the Church by our uplifted hand, it not only signifies that we acknowledge before God that he is the rightful possessor of all the priesthood keys; it means that we covenant with God that we will abide by the direction and the counsel that comes through His prophet. It is a solemn covenant” (David B. Haight, Solemn Assemblies, Ensign, Nov. 1994, 14–15).
To do otherwise is dangerous. Joseph F. Smith said: “Men may become dissatisfied one with another, they may become dissatisfied towards the Presidency, the Quorum of the Twelve, or others, and may say in their hearts, “I do not like such an one; I do not believe he is as good as he should be, he has too many faults and weaknesses and, therefore, I cannot and will not acknowledge his authority, as I have not faith in the man.” Doubtless there are those, too many perhaps, who feel that way, but the trouble is, … just because they have become dissatisfied with the individual and harboured feelings of bitterness in their hearts against their brethren, they lose sight of the designs of the Almighty; they turn against the authority of the Holy Priesthood; and through their blindness allow themselves to be led astray, and at last turn away from the Church.”

One of the temple recommend questions is “Do you sustain the President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints as the Prophet, Seer, and Revelator and as the only person on the earth who possesses and is authorized to exercise all priesthood keys? Do you sustain members of the First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles as prophets, seers, and revelators? Do you sustain the other General Authorities and local authorities of the Church? Please note that it includes local authorities. So whether we agree with their decisions or not, we must accept them and remember these men (and women!) have been called of the Lord and are his mouthpiece. What it all comes down to for me, is “Is the church true?” Of course it is! Then we are safe in the care of our leaders, because they Lord picked them.

You might not like someone that is called to a position in the gospel, especially a position of authority, but you should sustain them anyway. For those of you who attended the most recent stake conference, you would have heard in one of the testimonies, that when our last stake president was called one of the bishops had said, I don’t like the way he talks! He then went out of his way to get to know him better, had them over for dinner. How many times have we said we don’t like someone before getting to know them. I know I am terrible for that… We can do the same, get to know someone and close that gap.

READING 6: Doctrine and Covenants 1:38 warns: “Whether by mine own voice or by the voice of my servants, it is the same.” There is so much safety in knowing God has provided us with a prophet to get through the last days of the world. It is one of His gifts of love to our children and our willingness to follow the prophet he has chosen is our message of how much we love and trust God. It is our testimony in action—and a testimony that is words without action does not have the power to bring us back home to God.

Whom the Lord calls, the Lord qualifies. Those who he calls are blessed to have the right words, so long as they remain worthy to receive them. They are able to open their mouth and speak the words that the Lord wants them to speak. Joseph Smith said on more than one occasion that he was not mighty in words but the Lord promised him, as recorded in the doctrine and covenants: "It shall be given you in the very moment what you shall speak and what you shall write." There is no recorded evidence that he ever spoke from a prepared text!, something else we learnt during stake conference.

I'd like for once to share a rather personal experience. I was called as the ward relief society president just 18 months ago. I was 32 years old. I always assumed the RSP was someone in their 40s or 50s, or even older, not someone my age! In fact, at first I was convinced that my husband and bishop had set me up for a joke. When beautiful Sister Evans, our stake RSP sat with me, I said. I can't do this. I'm so awkward. I always say the wrong thing at the wrong time. Her words were simple but perfect. “If you do the right thing and pray for the right words, you can open your mouth and they will come. And you can be assured that they will always be the right words.” I don’t think I’ve become any less awkward, but the words have come.

READING 7: President Eyring shared a beautiful story about one young man's example of sustaining his Church leaders: Years ago an 18-year-old student showed me what it means to sustain the Lord’s servants. I am still blessed by his humble example. He had just begun his first year in college. He was baptized less than a year before he left home to begin his studies at a large university. There I served as his bishop.
As the school year began, I had a brief interview with him in the bishop’s office. I remember little of that first conversation except that he spoke of his challenges in a new place, but I will never forget our second conversation. He asked to see me in my office. I was surprised when he said, “Could we pray together, and may I be voice?” I was about to say that I had already prayed and expected that he had as well. Instead I agreed. He began his prayer with a testimony that he knew the bishop was called of God. He asked God to tell me what he should do in a matter of great spiritual consequence. The young man told God he was sure the bishop already knew his needs and would be given the counsel he needed to hear. As he spoke, the specific dangers he would face came to my mind. The counsel was simple but given in great clarity: pray always, obey the commandments, and have no fear.
That young man, one year in the Church, taught by example what God can do with a leader as he is sustained by the faith and prayers of those he is called to lead. That young man demonstrated for me the power of the law of common consent in the Church . I spoke recently with that young man who sustained his bishop years ago. I learned that the Lord and the people had sustained him in his call as a missionary, as a stake president, and as a father. He said as our conversation ended, “I still pray for you every day.” ("First Presidency Message: Called of God and Sustained by the People," Liahona, June 2012)

What are some ways we can support or help leaders of the Church both locally and on a larger scale. Ideas include: by our faith and prayers in their behalf, by helping when they ask us, by accepting callings extended to us and most importantly, by following their counsel.

May I leave you my sisters, with an encouragement to not only sustain your church leaders, but to take opportunities to tell them that you do! If you like a talk someone gives, tell them. If you like a lesson, take the time out to let them know. If a leader goes out of their way to help you or your family, show your gratitude by telling them, then helping someone else.

sources:
http://www.ldsliving.com/FHE-Sustaining-the-Prophet/s/78555

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i am so so grateful for the women who have sustained me. it's the sole reason i can keep going in this sometimes very difficult calling! ♥

Monday, August 7, 2017

a relief society lesson on music


just for something different, this sunday we asked our ward organist (who is extremely well trained and educated in music... and teaches it for a full time job) to give us a lesson about the music of the church. what a treat! she does not do things by halves and created this amazing edible grand piano that was demolished after the lesson... taught us basic music knowledge, spoke about the music of the church, the mormon tabernacle choir and to top it all off, finished by having us break into groups and rewrite a primary song, using the tune with our own lyrics. 

what a laugh! our group chose "jesus wants me for a sunbeam" and it went as follows:
relief society makes me happy
to come to church each week
to sit and to learn with our sisters, 
enlightenment we seek.
on sunday, on sunday, 
relief society on a sunday
on sunday, on sunday,
i'll be a sister for him!

the group behind us sang something about i love to see a clean house to the tune of "i love to see the temple." it was hysterical... what a cool game - and an amazing lesson. we are very blessed to have sisters in our ward who are so talented and are willing to share their talents with others! ♥

Sunday, July 23, 2017

the power of the book of mormon


i love it when i get to teach relief society... and this time was definitely no exception. this weeks topic was the power of the book of mormon, a talk given at general conference in april of this year, by president thomas s monson. it's only a three minute talk, so obviously i had to do something to make up the rest of the time... and i ended up with more than enough! so here it is!

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My lesson today is based on the April 2017 Sunday morning session conference talk by President Monson, entitled the Power of the Book of Mormon. During the last conference, he spoke just twice, with both talks being less than 3 minutes each. All that did for me was to emphasise that he obviously had something very important to say, which he did! He dedicated his entire Sunday morning talk to the importance of reading and gaining a testimony of the Book of Mormon! We could easily read it, but I love to listen to our prophet speak, so we’ll watch it now. You can do so here!

I love President Monson’s simple invitation. If you are not reading the Book of Mormon each day, PLEASE DO SO.

The word Mormon means “more good” and that’s what the Book of Mormon will bring to our lives.

The Book of Mormon was first published 187 years ago in March 1830 and the first edition of the Book of Mormon was made by hand. Please allow me to tell you over the next few minutes how this was done.

The Prophet Joseph Smith had made several visits to newspaper editors and publishers prior to the printing of the book. Letters indicate that his appearance was engaging, but his business proposition was unusual and refused. His request for 5,000 copies of a book from newspaper publishers was a far cry from a request to produce 5,000 newspapers. He was twenty years beyond the scope of his generation. The large quantity would have been more readily feasible to publishers after 1847, when the rotary press was introduced. In 1830 book publishers in the United States were not producing books in large editions, either. In fact, until 1820 seventy percent of the books circulating in America had been printed in Great Britain. The size of first editions of books in America varied. While religious and staple books led with large editions, usual editions ran from 500 or 600 to 2,000 copies. The Bible, the most salable book, was on occasion printed in a 10,000-copy edition. But most printers felt that it was better business “to be forced to reprint a successful book than to carry on … their shelves a large remainder of a volume that had failed to make its way.”

“The most tedious and difficult task that confronted a colonial printer,” writes Wendell J. Ashton, “was the production of a book of a considerable number of pages.”  The huge amount of work involved in production was due to the state of the materials and presses, which at the time caused the publishers to keep edition sizes small. When they did produce a large edition, selling it out often became a problem. To illustrate what was considered a “large quantity,” John Wilson, the son of a famous Cambridge printer, had apprenticed on an iron press in 1843. One extremely large order of his involved the production of a sixteen-page octavo (eight pages cut from one sheet of paper) tract of 100,000 copies. He considered 2,000 copies of the tract as being a good day’s work. It took fifty days to print this edition. In his words, “this was a formidable number to print on a hand press.” Since the Book of Mormon involved 185,000 copies of octavo layout printed on both sides, it represented a doubly formidable quantity of printed material.

When we understand the circumstances surrounding mass publication in that era, the somewhat overwhelming nature of Joseph Smith’s request for 5,000 copies becomes more apparent. A newspaper in Rochester NY, the Gem, published information about the visit of Joseph and Martin in an article dated September 5, 1829: “A man by the name of Martin Harris was in this village a few days since endeavouring to make contract for printing a large quantity of a work called the Golden Bible … now in press in Palmyra, Wayne County.”

Finally, in August 1829, in a building housing the printing equipment of the Wayne Sentinel, the Book of Mormon went to press. Mr. Grandin and his associates had taken on the unpopular task of printing this book when other nearby newspaper editors refused. Grandin (whose name you will notice showing on the copy I’ll pass around shortly) consented to produce the book only as a “business matter,” with the understanding among his friends and associates that he was in no way related to the religion that the book represented. 

Outwardly, the building of the Wayne Sentinel reflected the image of any small, country printing establishment of that period in the United States. But the spirit of a few excited men gathered within this particular building at this time reflected something very different. To them, the dawning of a new dispensation seemed imminent. When John H. Gilbert, main compositor for the Book of Mormon, showed those present the galley sheet of the first few pages of the book, including the title page, three onlookers—Martin Harris, Oliver Cowdery, and Joseph Smith—were delighted with this first impression of the book in print. Two others, however—Pomeroy Tucker and Stephen S. Harding—did not share the feeling of anticipation and joy that filled the hearts of the others.

Still, the business transaction had been made, although it was unusual from its inception. The usual procedure was for the printer to completely examine the manuscript and make plans for the form of the book. But Mr. Grandin and his associates had to make their decisions from a few pages of manuscript, taking Joseph Smith’s word on the number of “folios” that the manuscript would make. From these few specimen pages, Grandin had to decide the cost of composing and setting the type, the choice of the proper type size, the book size, the amount of ink, paper, leather, and binding materials needed, and the time and cost of printing and bookbinding. These were all figured out with hardly any knowledge of the manuscript that he proposed to set into book form. The chief compositor, Gilbert, also began his job under unusual circumstances. The manuscript was only given to him by a guard; because some of the translated material had been lost, Joseph Smith was constrained to have a guard accompany the small batches of copy to be set each day. It was then composed, set in galley and page forms, checked out, and proofread. The manuscript was always withdrawn each evening by Oliver Cowdery and a guard, who was sometimes the Prophet’s own brother, Hyrum Smith. Aside from this slightly disquieting procedure, the printing office soon hummed with normal activity. Once the first proof sheets had been readied, printing on the press could proceed simultaneously with the typesetting, galleying, paging, and proofreading. Gilbert wasted no time, after he received Joseph Smith’s approval on the first proof sheets, in finishing the first signature (large sheet of printed pages) of the Book of Mormon.

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This is a copy of the first “signature” that appeared in the original printing of the Book of Mormon. You can see when it’s opened up that it’s printed in an order that works when it is folded, then cut to size, to make the first 16 pages of the Book of Mormon. The Book of Mormon consisted of all of these signatures printed and joined together over and over until it was complete. Once each side was dry, the second side would be printed.

As Mr Gilbert composed the type for the Book of Mormon, he would read the manuscript sentence by sentence, memorizing the wording, spelling, and punctuating exactly as he proceeded. At the end of each word, he would add a small space, with the thumb of his left hand holding each new letter in position at the end of the growing line of letters. When he finished a line, he would either hyphenate the word, fit one more small word in, or end the line and respace the words. In any case, the line was justified by spacing it until it had a firm fit. Sometimes this involved removing all the spaces between the words and inserting wider or smaller ones. When the measure of his composing stick was finally full, Major Gilbert would pause to read the lines that he had just set. To a layman the face of the type would be upside down and reversed, but to a man skilled in this profession, this reading was done as easily as is normal reading. The whole Book of Mormon was given its first proofreading this way.

We cannot be sure how fast Gilbert set the type for the book, but words cannot be composed as quickly as they can be written. For four centuries composing a book meant picking up each letter singly and assembling it with other letters in a composing stick. Compositors achieved great dexterity in this work, but there is a limit to the speed of the fingers. As the typesetting progressed, Gilbert’s nimble fingers kept up a regular pace while his eyes scanned the manuscript copy. This was the typical typesetting scene that Oliver Cowdery and his companions watched as they guarded the manuscript during the months of printing. The printing also progressed rapidly during this time. The busy office never knew a moment’s silence for eleven hours a day, six days a week, after work on the Book of Mormon commenced. As good pressmen were known for their regular rhythm and consistent production, Mr. Grandin and his associates at the Wayne Sentinel were no doubt proud to print with very little time lost or wasted, printing slightly over four sheets a minute. By their printing standards, they produced the Book of Mormon in good time on that Washington press—especially considering the fact that the print shop continued to publish the Wayne Sentinel each week.

While we offhandedly state that the Book of Mormon came to press during the last part of August 1829 and the printing ended in March 1830, we often forget the bookbinding part of the work. Yet this ancient process was an important one in making the Book of Mormon. After the printed signatures (folded into bundles of eight leaves) were placed in order according to their numbers, they were placed on a sewing frame and cords were sewn through the spinal fold with a special stitch called the kettle stitch. Then they were hammered down the spine to tighten the folds, screwed into a standing press, and glued along the spine to hold them together permanently. When this glue reached the right elasticity, the spine was tapped to give each book the necessary rounded shape at the back for the addition of the cover. The covers were cut from cardboard and a thin white sheet of paper was pasted onto one side. This caused the board to draw slightly in and curve into the proper shape for a book cover as the paste dried. The ends of the cords previously sewed through the spinal fold of the book were glued into these covers. To give the covers their final dress, dampened leather was carefully drawn over the cardboard, smoothed over the spine, pared down at the corners, and glued to the cardboard frames. When all the edges were tightly glued down and the corners squared, the books were left to dry.

In this busy atmosphere during the binding of the Book of Mormon, none of these craftsmen could know that they were making history. When Grandin and his small crew had finished the first few copies of the Book of Mormon and set them up for sale in the small bookstore in Palmyra, they had little realization of the consequences and far-reaching effects to come because of this handcrafted product they had made. As they tooled and lettered the name of the book on the leather cover with gold that would not tarnish, they little knew that it would be untarnished over a hundred years later and that the book itself contained a message far more untarnishable than the letters on its cover—a message of truth for all the world.

Thankfully the printing process is nowhere near as difficult in our day and in 2011 the church reported that more than 150 million copies had been printed since 1830.

Isn’t that amazing! To hear how the pages of the Book of Mormon came to be! We know the Book of Mormon was specifically written for OUR DAY. Mormon Chapter 8 speaks of the prophesied coming forth of the Book of Mormon and there are a few verses that I’d specifically like to cover:

Mormon: 8:14-15

14 And I am the same who hideth up this record unto the Lord; the plates thereof are of no worth, because of the commandment of the Lord. For he truly saith that no one shall have them to get gain; but the record thereof is of great worth; and whoso shall bring it to light, him will the Lord bless.
15 For none can have power to bring it to light save it be given him of God; for God wills that it shall be done with an eye single to his glory, or the welfare of the ancient and long dispersed covenant people of the Lord.

 (this scripture mentions that the plates would be of no worth to anyone other than those who would “bring it to light” and the only way they could come forward would be through the power of God)

Mormon 8:25

25 And behold, their prayers were also in behalf of him that the Lord should suffer to bring these things forth.

This verse says that ancient prophets knew and prayed for the prophet Joseph Smith, knowing he would one day bring this record forward to the world. This is such a great chapter of the Book of Mormon, seriously read it when you get home! There are many detailed prophecies made by Moroni that stand as a witness to prove the truth of the book.

Moroni then tells us that he has seen our day in Mormon 8:35.

35 Behold, I speak unto you as if ye were present, and yet ye are not. But behold, Jesus Christ hath shown you unto me, and I know your doing.

 The Book of Mormon was truly brought forth from the earth “for our day” in this final dispensation. I like to imagine the joy Moroni felt as he personally passed his writings to Joseph Smith to be brought forward.

I have said multiple times in lessons, if you are too busy to pray and ready your scriptures, you are busier than the Lord ever intended you to be. Please take the time to read from the Book of Mormon each day as our dear prophet has asked us to. You will find strength and safety in the words of the ancient prophets who were inspired to know what we needed to hear. 




I know there are plenty of meme lovers in our RS here, so here’s one for you. We know from the verses of the Book of Mormon that often there was war raging as someone had to take the time to gather and prepare the ore required for the pages, then engrave their writings because the Lord had commanded them to write and they were obedient and did so. We need to MAKE the time to read it.

I remember one of the greatest pieces of advice I received was to put myself in the story, much as Nephi said in 1 Nephi 19:23

23 And I did read many things unto them which were written in the books of Moses; but that I might more fully persuade them to believe in the Lord their Redeemer I did read unto them that which was written by the prophet Isaiah; for I did liken all scriptures unto us, that it might be for our profit and learning.

I received a copy of a “Book of Mormon challenge” many years ago (you can find something similar here - basically explaining what would be required to write your own – and believe me it’s a lot!) that I would love to share a few points of with you:

§  Joseph Smith was just 23 years old had no more than 3 years of formal education
§  At no stage was the translation of the Book of Mormon ever read back. Other than grammatical and punctuation changes, the first copy has stood forever as first released.
§  Many styles of writing were included in the Book, relating to each individual author.
§  All mentions of Christ and his ministry agree perfectly with the Bible, without exception.
§  The Book of Mormon was published at the expense of Joseph Smith, who along with others gave his own money/ mortgaged his own land to see it published. He never received any monetary gain, in fact he lost all that he had, submitting himself to the most vile persecution, imprisonment and finally giving his life to seal his testimony of the truthfulness of the Book.

It was impossible that the book has been “made up”. It simply could not have been done. I am would have been so easy to give up and walk away time and time again, rather than watching his family and friends and his people suffering for the truth, but Joseph knew of the truth of the book, as do we and to this day, thousands of missionaries leave their families each year at their own expense, to share the book of Mormon with the world. Why would we bother if it wasn’t true.

Over time many theories and ideas have arisen as to the origin of the Book of Mormon, but all have been proven wrong when tested. Joseph’s Smith claim that the Book came from a divine origin has stood strong as the only possible explanation despite efforts by many to show otherwise. Its strength has increased to the point where is has become the only logical explanation. Scholars and professors have testified to its divinity, because there is NO other explanation, it MUST BE REAL, meaning it MUST BE TRUE.

Bruce R. McConkie said, “There are … millions of sincere and devout persons who disbelieve, oppose, and openly fight the Book of Mormon. … What is it about some words on a printed page—all of which are clean and uplifting and pertain to historical and doctrinal matters—that arouses such violent antagonism?
“Men ordinarily do not rise up to fight the Bible; they do not organize mobs and incite them to shed the blood of others because such persons believe in the scripture of the Old World. … The violent opposition to the Book of Mormon is one of the great evidences of its divinity. If it were not of God, Lucifer would not overly concern himself with it.”

I love to hear Elder Holland bear testimony of the Book of Mormon, so let's do that too! (you can find that here)


As you can see from these pictures, (on the board, showing the three witnesses and the eight witnesses of the Book of Mormon) many people saw and held the plates and witnessed of their existence. These people never changed their witness. Never retracted it, never denied what they had seen. Joseph Smith didn't just "make it all up." He simply couldn't have.

It doesn't matter which cover, it doesn't matter what language. (See display above!) It is the Book of Mormon and it is true!

"The Book of Mormon is the most correct of any book on this Earth, and the keystone of our religion, and a man would get nearer to God by abiding by its precepts, than by any other book. - Joseph Smith Jnr.

I KNOW of the truth of the Book of Mormon. I KNOW Joseph Smith saw Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ. I know these words were written for US. PLEASE make time to read the Book of Mormon daily. It will change your life.

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information regarding printing etc sourced here